Newton's third law of emotion.

"For every male action, there is a female overreaction".   -sir Isacc Newton. 

The above quote is a model and can be molded into whatever direction your dating calls for.  

This post is related solely on communication and dating.  When do we text back?  How often do we respond?  When do we call?  When do we answer?

In the era of iPhones and Notes, Droids and Htc's.   We all have a smart phone and it's more than our mode of communication it becomes the sticky glue that we use for everything.  It's our todo list organizer and the source of updates to all social media.  Most of our words and expressions are misleading and misconstrued via text.  Dating is so much harder these days than when Ma and Pa were chasing each other around and playing red rover red rover in the playground.  

The lag time response game is most important in dating.  You have to be strong and I'm not saying its easy but it's a skill that if used will ensure what I refer to as "back sweat".  Back sweat is terminology referring to the discomfort and confusion your date or slam piece will incur when you don't respond.  Again.  They know you received the text but why haven't you responded?  Because you aren't sweating it, make them sweat you and wonder how long, checking their phone and smoking cigs dying for a response builds want and need.  

Never have the last word; so important to remember that you aren't waiting on response.  Always leave the thread in your hands, it's your game and you are the one who doesn't have the last word.  Make your bew finish the thread and restart the thread.  They won't understand why you haven't responded to that joke or off the cuff lame thing they are doing.  It doesn't matter to you because you have too much going on even if you are just laying in bed eating Spaghetti O's and watching sandlot for the 50th time.  

Phone calls in the 21st century are a treat, when your trick calls... answer.  It's so much cooler and classic of them.  If you don't answer and they leave a voicemail the game is won, champ.  If they don't leave a voicemail no biggie but if they do, it's over.  You have spun the web and tangled them tightly.  Nice job.  As for, calling them, not necessary but voicemail head can be called back just not right away.  Also, never mention the voicemail as cute or anything.  I don't care if they played a baby grand and we're singing a love tune.  (You didn't listen yet).  Hello.  

Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn,

You do not accept a follow or friend request until this shit is locked down duh.  Unless this person is going in the friend file who happens to sleep over when it's convenient then it's k.  

Cheers,

AT.